Friday, December 04, 2009

In the Now, Like Tonight

I've been rewinding a bit in my previous posts. Only for my own sanity or longevity, I guess. But, this is tonight!

Maybe it's me; but I have felt so much comfort, these days, from my family and friends.

My brother Jim is on his way back down for the weekend. Yay. (Before finishing, he's HERE!)

I talked with the kid tonight. And maybe because she gave us so much love when she was with us that we still feel it. I really don't feel her gone. Is there any other explanation? I dunno. We were so fortunate to have her in our lives. All of us.

Since we're spending Christmas in Canada, decor is at a minimum this year. I put a few things out tonight; and perhaps that is because the kid took it upon himself to rearrange (destroy) the basement. Lordy me, I can't even find the essentials. Notta one--not even our stockings. Well, except Frankie's. Which now reads "F a k" because half of the felt letters fell off. Oy.

A piece of chocolate?

Way past my bedtime. Goodnite. I best be getting to bed!

xo ro

Post Heading Home

Rewind: I left Nashville on November 11 and drove to Knoxville where I picked the teenager up at UT. We were in the thick of Tropical Storm Ida who decided to take the exact same route as us, in fact. Fun. And I was feeling like hell, to boot. My back was still killing me and nothing was helping.

At any rate, we drove for 12 hours, in the wind and rain and made it as far as Manassas in Virgina. It is only about 40 miles outside DC, but I was getting pretty darn tired about midnight so we pulled into the local Hampton Inn for the night. When we got up the next morning, we hit the Galleria at Tyson's Corner. I got the teenager a cap since it was a tad chillier than it was in TN. It was quite hilarious, like we were two country bumpkins in the big city. We were ooohing and awing over all the high-end stores and even the cars in the middle of the mall, the likes of Ferrari, Maserati and Lamborghini. Sign me up boys!

I was feeling so bad by this time, we stopped at the Cheesecake Factory in the mall and sat down and ate. Ooooof. I just felt bad. Even the onion rings didn't make me feel better. You know that's bad!

I had a salad and the teenager had a kobe beef burger. Yum.

After we finished, we got a call from my brother and we headed towards Baltimore. He was already cookin'! A glass or two (perhaps three) of sangria made me feel a little better and I jumped right on in too. I think we hit the beds kinda early because we knew we would be cooking all day on Friday, the 13th.

Birthday morning, Jim and his wife had a teachers' conference in the a.m. so they were gone by the time I got up. Their nanny was there, thank goodness, because by this time, I was hurting. I could literally feel my organs--not good. I asked her where the local walk-in clinic was and made my way there lickety split. I was feeling so bad, me--mz. photographer--didn't even take one photo. What great shots I could have got. Oh well. Anyway, I really didn't have to wait long and was in and out in probably three hours. Bladder infection. Oh my. I've never had one. And no, it did not hurt when I peed. lol The doc put me on heavy duty antibiotics and I was on my merry little way. The check in guy did wish me a happy birthday. Awwww. I made it back and Jim had already started cooking again. And these gorgeous flowers were waiting for me. I had never seen such a beautiful spray of roses before. All done up fancy.

And even prettier in a vase.

Some of them had a green tint to them with just a speck of red. They were gorgeous. Awwww.

I started my red beans and Jim continued his beef brisket and pork bbq.

We made many bottles of Mangria Monkey Punch (sangria) and stored it in the cold garage.

I had ordered large Calla lilies for the celebration and they arrived. Jim scrambled for a holder for them and came up with a gorgeous silver champagne bucket (I think). We put them in his great room. They were gorgeous.

Mom's red flora was placed in the center of the parlour. It was absolutely perfect.

A photo from her childhood

and one from this summer. Precious.

We got it all done for Saturday's celebration. Jim and I made pork bbq, beef brisket, mom's fried chicken (8 pounds of wings which went in a snap and everyone said it was JUST like hers! Yay, success!!!) red beans and rice, cornbread, and he had a friend make baked ziti, cole slaw, potato salad, pasta salad, fruit salad, etc. I think we had it all covered. In addition to Jim's sangria, we also made batches of mom's sweet tea. I can honestly say that no one went home hungry!

Oh my, we had quite a little reunion from junior high school! Mom worked in the kitchen and these sweet friends came out to help celebrate mom's life. It was so wonderful.

Me and my two brothers, Jim and John. Still a crude try at changing the background. Perhaps in the New Year, I should invest in a Photoshop class.

Here we are taking a breather after everyone left. It was a wonderful turnout for a wonderful lady. We couldn't have asked for anything better.

And then I asked my brother for a belated birthday gift--a chocolate malt. Which he did. It tasted just like I remember when we were little and he would make them for me.

It was an absolutely perfect ending to a perfect day.

xo ro

Thursday, December 03, 2009

Miscellanea Post October

To think that mom left us over a month ago is surreal to me. I suppose it's been good that I haven't yet stopped long enough for the finality to sink in.

The hub helped me unpack from Riverside and my short visit with the girls.

My brother Jim and I were able to catch up, again. I can't tell you what a Godsend it was having him here.

Me clawing at my martini. Couldn't get it in me fast enough, I suppose.

A wonderful dinner where my brother was mistaken for David Gilmour (of Pink Floyd fame) behind the salad in the panoramic shot above. lol I guess the American accent gave it away that he wasn't. But the kitchen did still believe; as we left they all stood in line and waved (ala queen like) and said goodnight in their best British accent. It was just what we needed to get a good chuckle.

The table was full of cook books and panoramic photos.

And old Kodachrome slides from back in the day. (Live Led Zeppelin!)

Memories from the time with my friends in Alabama where Kell learned the new phrase, honey hole and honey pot--meaning a great fishing spot. This was a gift from her to all the girls.

I had left the new wagon with Amy and Kell in Alabama since they were staying at Riverside an extra couple of days and I drove ol' Ollie back home. It is now the kid's car to drive when he gets his divers' license in January.

I took all of my hippie bumper stickers off. Sniffle. He's quite happy.

Flowers arrived daily and they were all so beautiful.

Amy brought home a new friend for me.

Halloween came and went.

Friends arrived home from LA.

Mom's Red Flora sat proudly on the mantel.

And holiday catalogs quickly stacked up.

Jim made the decision to have a celebration of mom's life at his house rather than a memorial service at a funeral home in Virginia. Absolutely brilliant. It just came out of nowhere. And I was so happy it did. I began plans to drive back home with mom. (She never did like to fly.)

xo
ro

Wednesday, December 02, 2009

Giving Thanks -- No. 2

She was there with me when I took my first breath and I was there with her when she took her last. Mom was never alone during her last days. Either my brother Jim or I were by her side, and I know she was aware of our presence.

For that, I am so thankful.

I miss you mom, so very much.

xo
ro

Tuesday, December 01, 2009

Giving Thanks, Rewind No. 1

First of all, I simply cannot believe it's December. I need to know where all of November went. If I hadn't been surrounded by a flurry of family and good friends since the end of October, we still would be in November. Seriously!

It seems almost a lifetime ago that my girlfriends and I reunited at Riverside. Aim drove down to Nashville and we giggled all night before leaving for Alabama the next morning. We managed to arrive and headed over to LuLu's before closing time. There was a live duo and Amy and I enjoyed catching up.

I had brought some old photos.

And Bella, of course.

We decorated with our old Jr. high school initials and talked into the night.

Kell arrived the next morning. It took everything in me to find that darned airport in Pensacola. Amy and I were a tad late getting on the road to the airport so driving around lost didn't help any. Kell was waiting with a smile when we finally did arrive. We came back to Riverside and chilled.

Here she is trying to catch (and release) a gecko from the front porch.

Unfortunately, Pam was unable to make it as her mother-in-law was very ill. She was lucky to have been by her side when she passed that Thursday.

That night, we made my brother's Mangria Monkey Punch (sangria) and stored it to enjoy the next day.

We did however begin the evening to a GGC toast with our new Skull vodka.

And then we began making our autumn-themed charm bracelets (inspired by Saucy's very own).

Charm by charm.

Then some more.

And more. Look at Amy's at the top. Was she in super mode or what?

Quite full, don't you think?

Made with lotsa love.

We later noticed that the river was flooding a tad and had to go down to the dock and move the chairs so they wouldn't float away.

And we played a bit.

Until we spied this big feller. Time to move on girls. Ew.

And then another shot for the night.

The next day, we had lunch at the Fish River Grill, beginning with the swamp soup. Yum.

And a day of shopping in town. Our favorite spot was Rosie Blu's.

Where Rosie lives.

And then next door where this guy resides. Awwww.

Above our little book store.

On Friday, we took a clay silver class. How fun this was!

Our finished products.

I had received the phone call during the class and knew by next morning, Saturday, I needed to head home to check on mom. They were xraying her for pneumonia. So the girls and I headed in for some coffee before I hit the road back to Nashville.

My quick lunch, on the road. A very homemade looking grilled ham and cheese.

I made it all the into Tennessee and almost to mom when I got pulled over for a speeding ticket. OH my. I am bad. This was my first speeding ticket in Tennessee, ev-ver! But I did make it home safely. Phew.

Sorry for the rewind here. I just really need to catch up and take it all in a little slower.

xo
ro

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Black Friday

While we fervently avoid the malls at all costs, even on non-black Friday days, the brother does enjoy hitting some of the wonderful smaller, more personal shops around town. We even had the SIL in tow yesterday which was a joy. Here Jim is modeling a new style of headwear.

We found a few new shops which I hadn't spied before. Yes, we treated ourselves to some wonderful cupcakes, the gingerbread being the best. (No pics. I'm afraid they didn't last very long.)

Then we came home and made turkey sandwiches, almost as good as a full turkey dinner in this house! And then the brother got a hankering for more cooking.

We made Pots de Creme. (Will insert photo later.)

And then, as if that weren't enough, we made banana pudding. YUM! (Again, no pics, as we all scarfed it down pretty quickly.)

Before going to bed, we all had a small scoop of cranberry sorbet to clean the pallet. But of course, dawling.

Having so much fun with my family. Hope you are too.

xo
ro

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Too Much Fun

I have some 'splainin' to do.

Me, the cuz (Jacq) and the cuz2 (Mad).

All I can say is we have a very nice friend who treated my nieces and I to a very special evening.

Now I'm ready for bed. Another big day tomorrow in the kitchen with my brother!

Happy Thanksgiving y'all!

xo
ro

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Visions of Turkeys

Working like a fiend to get everything set for the family to arrive from the North.

Starting to look a lot like Thanksgiving, wouldn't you say? Getting ready to pick up the turkey.

Gobble gobble.

xo
ro

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Home's Gentle Reminders

I woke up this morning with a full-fledged head cold. Not feeling the greatest but thankful that my body waited until I got home before it hit.

I've been running around unpacking and straightening up the house. I went into the guest room for something and found mom's gorgeous Christmas cacti in full bloom! What beauty to behold. I have never had Christmas cactus ever re-bloom!

She had these for a couple of years and I moved them upstairs where I would hopefully tend to them. Guess I did.

But, this has to be the best ever. I now put cinnamon in my coffee each morning. Amy's mom, Polly, said it's good for the cholesterol. I'm game. What a delight finding this sign first thing this morning.

I am forever surrounded by so much Love.

xo ro

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Catching Up is Hard to Do

As much as I hate to admit it, this was actually taken before I left for Virginia. Ooooof. Ya don't even want to know what it looks like now. In fact, there was a slight avalanche just moments ago. And there it all sits, on the floor.

I am going to begin catching up with all my blogger friends. Seems like so much time has passed since I visited. I can't wait to see what you all have been up to.

The kid and I are going to celebrate our birthdays today--let the season begin! We were so busy on Friday the 13th (woooooo), we didn't do a thang. I did, however, have my brother make me a chocolate malt after mom's celebration on Saturday. Just like when we were kids. He makes the best. Period. It was but one of those many special moments I will share with you. That is, once I transfer ALL of my photos over to this computer. Oy.

And since I was still in VA for the kid's (16th!!!!), we decided to postpone both.

Will share photos later.

xo
ro

Update:

Now, this kind of catching up is a breeze!

The hub took the kid and I to a nice restaurant in town, Sunset Grill, that we had visited for the teenager's birthday this summer. Mmmmm. The first thing we noticed was this sign posted on the door. I LOVE it! You may have heard this summer that TN passed a new law that allows you to carry guns into bars and restaurants. It used to be against the law to consume alcohol while carrying a hand gun. Well, not any more. Just a tad scary don't ya think? I'll leave it at that because you know I am quite opinionated on the subject of gun laws in the states. Grrrrrrrrr. (I did reassure the maitre d' that we had most definitely left our guns with the parking attendant. lol)

This was my martini of the night--peach.

Of course, as usual, I ordered the shrimp and grits. The okra was a bonus. Momma is watching.

The hub had duck (the kid, his usual of fish and chips).

I ordered the pots de creme and we finished it lickety split. Oh so good.

Not that we needed it because we also had a cake waiting at home.

Glutton. I know.

Another oh-so-good moment.

You may have noticed the pretty quilt piece under the cake stand? I found a whole zip-lock bag full of gorgeous quilt pieces at a thrift store my brother, cousin and I visited on my last day at home.

Five bucks.

The scissors were in the case at checkout. One dollar a piece. They reminded me of mom's old ones when we were little. Even Jim loved them.

Okey dokey. Over and out for the day.

Friday, November 20, 2009

There's No Place Like Home

I don't think I need to click my red glittery heels together, because I'm already there. Sigh. Yes, that's Bella in the middle of all my muck. Toto? Nope, she's not as loyal as ol' Toto.

She's keeping her distance, still, as we speak. Brat. She's given me a couple of forced kisses. Only because I demanded them.

I left my Hampton Inn this morning and made my way over to the teenager's place. Do I have to tell you I was draggin'? Probably not. But I will anyway. I was really draggin'.

He suggested one of his haunts, the Sunspot. I think it was a tad early for him also. Like mother, like son.

The chips and salsa verde weren't really all that appetizing. I was more up for a breakfast menu, but the teenager isn't much of a breakfast-kinda-person. Oh well.

I enjoyed the wonderful photos on the wall.

And, I suppose, we were seated at the Haiku table. That was a lot of fun, but it was too early for my brain to be in gear. Duh. I think I could have come up with something. Daig. I was, however, able to follow these instructions. Quite easily, thank you very much. And he was too. Aw. I love yous are always good. Any time of day.

These all brought a smile to my face.

And this one is for Aim.

We were barely able to choke but a couple of bites down. I think I've been ill, in one form or another, since I left home over a week ago. Lordy me. Details on that later. Joy. Betchya can't wait for that! But this morning, I woke up with the teenager's sore throat and a raspy voice like Doris Day. He had left Maryland with it last Sunday. I have been in search of my Airborne medicinal stuff since last night once I felt it coming on. I just now chugged down a shot of the stuff. Let's hope that does the trick. Anyhow, he was off to class and I was on the road again.

I took the liberty of making some pit stops. Whatever caught my eye, I was exiting off the highway in search of whatever. Smelling the roses, so to speak.

My first surprise was this lake I stumbled upon in Kingston (I think). I was actually looking for an antique shop that advertised on a billboard that I never found. This was a much better find, for sure.

Absolutely beautiful.

As I was pulling away, I saw all of these geese and ducks. Of course, I had to pull over, find my muffin the hotel had given me for the road trip, and share with these cuties. They enjoyed it more than I ever would have.

My next stop was a cute little town, Harriman. It took all I had to find that information after the fact, let me tell you. lol I was actually looking for Rugby, which is an old Victorian city. Yep, in Tennessee. We went there when we first moved to TN with the boys, and I wanted to revisit it.

I never found it. I enjoyed Harriman tho. And a lady I met in a shop.

Funny how your wings take you places and you meet the most wonderful people and hear stories about their lives. I've always been fascinated with that. Even as a young child and we would take these road trips south to visit our relatives in Georgia and Texas, the people we would meet. So different yet so similar. Such wonderful memories of my childhood.

Today was one of those such meetings. I went into a little shop, the only one in town mind you. I walked around and gathered little goodies for stocking stuffers at Christmas and began a little pile on the counter by the register. There were not baskets around, so I just started a pile. There were two other ladies who had entered after me and they were more into the "social southern" way of shopping than I will ever be--that being talking to the shop owner as if they had known her since childhood. So, I continued to look around until it seemed they were almost all checked out. I approached the register and noticed that the owner was writing down the little tin toy I had picked up and had stacked on the corner of the countertop. Eeeeek. I gently spoke up and said "I'm sorry, but I was going to purchase that." Oy, I got a glare from the "purchaser" that would have curled your toes! It kind of startled me. I, personally, would have been embarrassed and said "OH, I am sorry, is THAT your stack of stuff???" Well she didn't. The shop keeper was sweet and offered to look for another one--sigh, another sign of Southern hospitality which takes sooooooooo LONG. lol. But she was sweet. While she was looking, I looked at the lady (dressed in her nurses' whie) and tried to break the ice. I said "I have carpal tunnel and can't hold things in my hands too long without them going to sleep and there were no baskets." Again, the glare. Well, I tell you what, I was through with that. Perhaps I'm not a true Southerner. and take offense to that sort of behavior. More like it, she isn't. For sure. Well hush my puppies. Shame on her. I am going into way too much detail here on the nasty woman. The real story was with the shop keeper. After the nasty woman left, we got to talking. I told her that there was no reason for that woman to be so rude. We just began talking like we do down here in the south. I had purchased some sweet plaques with wonderful mother sayings and I told her how I had just lost mom. She said she had just lost her father a couple of weeks before. But then she said she had lost her son about a month ago. OMG. I could hardly keep from welling up. How hard it must be to lose a child. He was a police officer, younger than me, was not supposed to be on duty that night and had been called in. He was killed in an automobile accident. Devastating. She told me to look at his photo, which she hung on the front door, on my way out. We all must remember, there is always someone out there who is hurting more than us.

Anyhoo, sniffle, the rest of my way home was quick and pretty easy. I think I ate my way home. I won't even put in writing what all I ate. I suppose I thought it was my last hurrah. And then tonight, the hub, kid and I enjoyed a delightful dinner together. I feel like the blueberry girl in Willie Wonka. I am about to burst.

As much as I miss all of my family and friends up north, it sure is good to be home. I cannot wait to crawl into bed with the hub so we can serenade each other to sleep with our snoring. Aw. Bliss.

xo ro

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Almost Home


I started my drive home today. Staying in Knoxville for the night. I simply cannot wait to get home to Nashville tomorrow!

I have so much to share.

xo
ro

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

All is Well on the Road

Just a quick note to say I'm still alive. Only thing is everyone has PCs and I can't seem to get connected to any networks. So, I'm jumping on everyone's PCs and getting a little computer time in.

Will catch up later. Promise.

xo
ro

Friday, November 06, 2009

Friday Night and It's Alright

These are from an old album of mom's I've been going through. lol I can smell a teenage girl from afar! Look at all these good looking boys!!! tehe. She always told me she was boy crazy when she was young. Proof! ha. I need to make a photo album for her celebration. Haven't started it yet. Lordy me. But, I do have a stack of photos to begin with. Hmmmm. Bets are on. Will I or won't I?

I've been been busy with this and that, as you know. First of all, a friend's daughter just had a baby and I felt the deep need to make her something especially special. Is that correct grammar? Oh well.

So I've been hunkered down in mom's space to get some things done. What is it with me and trios. Have to admit though, my favorite number is 3. Perhaps, that's it. An ornament within a box, within a box. 3.

Babies are good.

Especially cutesy ones with crowns. In a nest? Even better.

And baby girls? Well, I wouldn't know, now would I? I tried my bestest.

I've had a fat, chunky mocking bird sitting on the pumpkin each morning. Not a great photo, but still, it's sweet.

On my desk, how close can I get and still keep the newish camera in focus??? Scatter brained. Yep. That's me.

The hub just got home so we decided to hit one of our favorite joints. Johnny (of the Cash variety) always looks after us.

Me eating good vittles, hub on crackberry. What's wrong with this pic? lol

And, yes I did, in fact, go and visit the nurses. (Should have taken my camera--next time.) Oh my. What a welcome! Apparently, the electrical power had been off for a bit. And, that 'splains the HOUR it took to go the five miles there! LHM! Here I was thinking it was a Friday rush hour at 3 p.m. Nope. There had been a power outage for all of the city. I must have been at the tail end because all the street lights were working; it was just that people that weren't moving as fast as I would have liked them to after the fact! Yes, I'm still a Northerner at heart, I suppose. I'm not the most patient person behind the wheel, but c'mon. When the light turns green, it means GO!!!!! DAIG! Anyhoo, we were all a tad frazzled by the time I arrived--what with axillary lights and stuff there. How I feel for them. God bless 'em. But, I presented them with wonderful Krispy Kreme donuts to calm them down. Mmmmm.

Mom's memorial card had just arrived today. Very nice, except for the fact that they were obviously printed on a large sheet and perforated. Call me a perfectionist, but daig. If they hadn't been laminated, I would have cut that jagged edge off. Could I have done a better job. Yes. Of course. Will anyone else mind, even notice? Probably not. Me? Yep, I kinda mind. Oy. Still. Beautiful.

Of course, yes, tears rolled. Some had not been there before mom passed on; and what a shock it was to them when they returned . It all happened very quickly.

The photo. Mom. Oh. Priceless. You recognize it, I'm sure. It was taken this summer with the beautiful trumpet vine behind her. They all recognized it off the bat which seemed to bring a deep feeling of satisfaction to each and every one who looked at it and read the verse. Just look at that smile. The happiness. Perfect. They--the nurses and aids--were so genuine in their love and caring for mom. Even brother Jim, one who is quite blunt about people's personalities, said how wonderful these folks were, how genuine, and caring. Oooof. Tears. Rolling down my cheeks.

Ok, funny stuff. Before leaving home for the first post visit, there was one lone purple clematis, full bloom. I knew I had to take it to Ms. Mary, mom's roommate. I came out to the garage, cutters in hand, the memorial card and a fiber bar. Oy. Been eating a lot! Major problem! Trying to cut back, thus the "bar." lol So, I put the memorial card and bar on the roof of the car. I cut the vine with flower. It became quite the challenge putting the vine and other leaves I had cut into the little jar half full of water. I had to laugh. "Momma, are you jealous?" Oh, she'd get an attitude if I talked with her roommates! Bring flowers? I had to sneak them in. lol Anyway, I finally got them poked in, after much fighting! Momma. I said to myself, "Now, if this little bit of water spills, I know it's gonna be you doing the spillin'!" Remember how I said it took me an hour to get to mom's place? Well, going all of 3 miles an hour the entire way, somehow, the jar (which I had propped up very carefully) spilled all over my purse and everywhere else. Do you think I drove off with her memorial card on the roof? Yep. Had a debris field to come back to when I picked up the kid and brought him home from school. Little signs. Guess I'm clinging to anything. I'm sure it's just me--looking for signs from her. Regardless. I'll take them. Missing my mom.

xo ro

Thursday, November 05, 2009

Les Belle Fleurs

The house has been full of fresh flowers--and then the not-so-fresh. Why do sunflowers stink so? Ew. I still had the ones from the girls' week at Riverside. Yea, I know. They were way past their expiration date, for sure.

But just as I throw some dead ones out, new ones arrive. It's like everyone knows. I am completely blown away with the love that my mom spread throughout her life. Truly. Well, ok, sniffle. How gorgeous are these calla lilies? You think I could just take one photo? Nah.

Still working with the new Cyber-shot. I found the correct setting--then lost it again. I think the camera resets itself.

Or I'm just stupid or sumfin. Hmmm? lol

Who doesn't love a white rose. With baby's breath? Right from old school. Gotta love tradition.

Sunflowers, as bright as a smile.

Lilies (or as the hub would say, "Not just lilies, those are Rubrum Lilies!" by golly!) lol We had these at our wedding. It's the ONLY flower he knows because I dragged him with me to pick the flowers then. He cracks me up! And the smell always takes me back.

Beauty.

Seasonal.

Foodies. And can I just say that these grapes were to die for. They were the largest ones I've ever had--and seedless to boot!

Timeless.

Ok guys and gals, I'm thinking about taking something, mmmm, special to the nurses tomorrow. I know. I know. But it's Friday. And I'm thinking, logical right? And, then I think, if I go and perhaps let the tears flow, maybe then I won't have one of those breakdowns when I'm at mom's celebration. I'll play it by ear in the morning.

Thank you all, very very much. Phone calls, emails, flowers, cards, thoughts. Big ol' hearts out there! Good stuff.

xo
ro

Still praying for my friend.

Wednesday, November 04, 2009

Afterglow

I had an inspirational moment tonight and pulled this piece together for my journal. This phrase is oh-so-perfect for mom. She would not have wanted us to be sad. Fersher.

Afterglow? Oh yes.

I wrote on the back "I miss you today but not as much as tomorrow." I somehow feel each day will be a little lonelier without her. I have to say though, I'm really doing ok. Having as much time with her as I did, it's good. Wow. How fortunate am I? Pretty darn fortunate to have her in my life, period.

Getting it "all" done. Perhaps once there's nothing left to do, and once the celebration in her honor is over, it will hit me like a ton of bricks. Probably at the most awkward moment ever. Like when my dad's passing hit me. At the closing for our house in Leesburg before moving to Nashville. Oy. How embarrassing!

I spoke with, well im'd, with my brother Johnny tonight. I have to admit, tears rolled. Talked to him about how it hasn't really hit me yet. I'm thinking once I go back to visit the nursing home, it will. Perhaps that is why I'm avoiding them. Well, not avoiding them, but purposely not visiting yet. Funny, I seem to fight it off every day. Halloween afternoon, it took every thing in my power to stay away from the cupcake shop and buy extra special, spooky cupcakes for them. Everything in my power! Today, I went into town again to check up on the notes I'm having printed. It's right down the road from mom's old place. (Again, the roads were closed off. Daig! Gov. Bredesen was speaking. Lordy have mercy. Haven't been there in months and all of a sudden, it's the hottest thing since sliced bread!) Anyway, I thought about going over. Not quite ready. Not yet. They've been family for the past six months, ya know. Love them.

Saying prayers for a special friend.
Picked up mom's ashes.
Sleeping.
Thinking of food to cook for the celebration.
Present for new baby.
Memorial cards?
Eating too much, but still keeping a close eye out. wink.
Obit sent to The Post. Thanks to my bro Johnny who wrote it. Damn. He's good.
Remembering my friends at Riverside -- some of the best times in my life.
Loving all the memories pouring in.
Feeling the love of my mom, always.
Feeling all your love too.

So many emotions. So much love everywhere. Thank you to the best family ever --the hub, the kid, the teenager, all my brothers, my SILs, nieces, nephews, aunts, cousins. And all of you. Who have become so close, somehow, through this silly blog of mine.

Truly, I am blessed by you all.

xo
ro

Sunday, November 01, 2009

November 1

I almost wrote October. The year is passing by so quickly! I can hardly believe it.

We had a little bit of an overcast day. Friday night, it literally poured down rain. I am enjoying the changing of the leaves. They are pretty darn close to all dropping off the trees.

I went downtown to our little stationery print shop to change some things on my mom's memorial card and was stopped right in my tracks by tents. Yes. It was the Autumn fair which closes down all the main streets. Joy. Any other time, I would have enjoyed falling upon it. lol But I didn't have to park at the house and walk, thankfully! I was pretty lucky.

After finishing my visit, I had to take a walk into one of my favorite stores in town. I can't remember the last time I was actually down town! Guess I've been busy with more important things.

While I can't think of the name of my favorite store, you can see it is just chock full of eye candy.

Quite overpriced mostly, of course, but still fun to walk through or hit after the holidays. Wink wink. I looked at this vintage starfish print, over $800! Uh. I don't think so. Maybe Keith and Nicole can afford that price, but not me! (Oh btw, saw Keith Urban playing on the side of the road on Friday! The kid and I were driving to the store and there were all these police cars. We thought there was an accident. Nope, a small stage was set up at the new Verizon store and there was a small crowd converging. There was Keith, just playing his heart out. Gotta love Nashville!)

I came home and finished my spooky Halloween charm bracelet I had done a swap that Saucy put together. How fun is this?

The hub and kid did their thang.

And quite a thang it was.

And then, mwahahaha, the sun began to set and the Mad Max brigade began. The kid said, which totally cracked me up, "When I was young, we had to walk door to door!" The thing here, which I have never witnessed anywhere else I have lived, is getting a caravan of electric carts taking the kids around. They are always decked out which I enjoy watching. The little old-fashioned hearse parked by the house and turned the smoke machine on and blasted heavy metal music. I loved it!

Our heart-shamed full moon. Hoooooowl.

Lots of action in the streets.

Goodies from the scary old man.

And I think that scary old man liked my big ol' lips.

Hope everyone enjoyed and survived their ghoulish Halloween!

xo
ro

PS Must remember to turn back the clocks!

Saturday, October 31, 2009

I Put a Spell on You!



Enjoy your Halloween!

Friday, October 30, 2009

Bumping Along

I put my nose to the grindstone today trying to get things done for mom's celebration of life in DC on November 14. I actually got a lot done.

I think the evenings and nighttime are the hardest as I have more time to think about things. I'm trying to stay upbeat until it all comes crumbling down and hits me like a ton of bricks. So far, so good.

I hope the hub and kid understand my quietness and shortness of patience as my grieving process. Poor guys.

Again, hearing from so many of you has brought many smiles to my face. Thank you.

xo
ro

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Thank You All

The abundance of love and well wishes are pouring in; and I can't tell you how much they truly mean to me.

Knowing how much mom was loved by so many makes me immensely happy. Even those who never met her could tell by her beautiful smile what an extraordinary and kind woman she was.

I am doing really well. I think I have caught up on my sleep, sleeping until 1 p.m. today! Sleep has always been my sanctuary. I'm feeling refreshed and at peace.

My family is beyond amazing and having them surrounding me is a Godsend. My friends are just as wondrous. Feeling your love has lifted my heart.

Thank you all so very much. I know she is looking down on us on this beautiful, sunny and crisp fall day and feeling our love spreading throughout the land in her honor. I can see that great big, magnificent smile.

xo
ro

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

In Our Hearts Forever


To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die.
She lives on in so many of our hearts. That gives me much comfort.

Mom

We lost our sweet Lillie Sue yesterday afternoon. How fortunate we were to have her in our lives as long as we did. Now we have a very special angel looking over us. And I'm sure those new wings are absolutely brilliant.

Thank you all so very much for all your thoughts and prayers. We felt each and every one.

We will be celebrating her life at my brother Jim's house in Maryland on November 14. It will be a wonderful celebration of a beautiful life.

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Thoughts and Prayers Needed

I'm heading home because mom is sick. Please keep her in your thoughts.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Gunston Girls' Club

The girls and I are enjoying our time together.

We picked Kelly up at the airport (after going around in circles for a bit) early Wednesday. We headed straight to one of our favorite places, The Crab Trap, in Perdido.

Took a little walk on the beach.

Watched as the yellow flag was changed to red.

Arrived home to our delivery of Amy's caramel apples, which we quickly opened and cut into.

We went into town and did a little shopping, enjoying the dogs at each shop. This is our little bookshop's coffee shop.

Big doings this weekend in town.

This is Rosie.

Of Rosie Blu.

We didn't get this fellow's name, but he was a real sweetie too at The Village Peddler.

Mosied back on home where it was time to open some goodies I found in Coronado for the girls. You peeled away layers of paper and found treasures under each one. It was a lot of fun.

Kell chased a gecko on the front porch.

We then made some Mangria Monkey Punch (my brother's recipe).

Toasted the GGC with a shot of Crystal Skull vodka (Dan Akroyd's product).

Called an old friend to wish him a happy birthday and noticed the river was up a tad. Had to remove the chairs of the dock.

Did some dancing in the cool water.

Until we spied this big boy. Time to pack it up girls.

We made charm bracelets.

And finished the evening with a nightcap. It's all a blurr now.

Bella was indignant with all of us at this point.

xo
ro

PS Pam, who was supposed to be with us this week stayed back in the Northeast because her mother-in-law was in the ICU. She passed away this morning so we all send our prayers to Pam and Gordon. Hugs Pammy.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Riverside with Amy

Waiting for Kell to arrive.

Dinner.

Old photos.

Out of the travel box.

Tranquility.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

I'm So Excited

c. 1980s

And I just can't hide it. I'm about to lose control and I think I like it.

My oldest and bestest friend, sister-at-heart Amy, is driving down tomorrow; then we're heading to Riverside to meet up with the rest of our oldest and bestest friends in 'bama!

Can you feel the anticipation?

It's electrifying!

PS Safe travels Aim!

Friday, October 16, 2009

Sweater Weather

I was peeking through Susan Branch's site and found her wonderful front page and borrowed a couple of pieces. I adore her work, almost as much as I adore autumn.

The teenager came home from University last night and I decided to try my hand at the "leftover" pie crust cookies that we had in San Diego. Of course, I purchased the pre-made pie crust!

I made bite-sized morsels, dabbed them with butter than dredged them in cinnamon sugar. Mmmmm.

Not quite like homemade crust . . . but he and his friends enjoyed a plate full straight out of the oven.

The rest went to the nurses today.


The hub is on his way home tonight and I'm killing time until I pick him up at the airport. Rainy here, foggy, misty--everything you don't want when flying. So, his arrival is delayed. Cannot wait for him to get home!

Happy Autumn!

xo
ro

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Autumn

Autumn is here. Finally. It's still grey and drizzly outside, but I'm loving the cooler weather. The fall shadow box was made by Connie, an old blogging friend from way back when I first began blogging. I won it! Isn't it fab!

I've been putting other things out too as I find them. You'd think I'd have all my fall decor in one area? Nope. It's all over the place! Organize, schmorganize.

I've always loved this little feller. The acorns were collected on Mobile Bay by my friends. Speaking of which, they are all coming down next week and we have an entire week together! Amy is driving down from Maryland on Monday and then we drive to Riverside on Tuesday. Pam and Kelly fly in on Wednesday! Whooop!

The dried arrangements were in mom's living room.

The teenager comes home from school tomorrow for the fall break. We have him all weekend. The hub has been all over the world for the past two weeks, from Liverpool to Amsterdam, from Beijing to Mumbai, from Hong Kong to Singapore, from Bangladesh to London and Bahrain somewhere in there. Poor guy. He will be home on Friday, I'm sure ready to sleep for a couple of days. I'll be happy to have all my men under one roof again!

I hope falling leaves are leaving you with a smile.

xo
ro

Monday, October 12, 2009

Mom and Jim

My brother Jim sent me some photos from his visit this summer. I took this photo of him and mom on one of his visits to see her.

I think it has to be one of the most precious photos I have ever seen.

Sniffle.

Friday, October 09, 2009

Fall is Upon Us

Oh yea, finally, it's feeling a little like Autumn. Actually, it is a little early, but I'm loving it.

We had rain today and it warmed up a little bit. I was liking the chill in the air actually.

I've been putting little things out for the season. It's my favorite time of year. Of course, Bella is inspecting everything. She's like a little child. She has to lick everything that comes within reach. Ew.

Aren't these little Halloween fairies too cute?

Catching up news: The kid found a loose diamond in his bathroom. I don't know if it's real or not. I can't find anyone who has lost one. Hmmmmm. I'm going to take it into a jeweler and see if it's real. It does cut glass.

Looks like we may be getting a Nordstrom's after all. I've been reading about this ever since moving to Nashville in 2001. I'm not holding my breath!

Mom is eating better. She's back up a couple of pounds. Yay! She's always so happy. God bless her!

This was the moon a couple of nights ago. Isn't this a gorgeous sky?

The kid's best friend is in from Los Angeles and they're up in the woods exploring. It's always nice when he comes back into town and they pick up where they left off. Too much fun.

Ok, now I'm really caught up!

xo
ro

Thursday, October 08, 2009

Goodbye San Diego

Finally, I am caught up. Well, with the San Diego trip anyway. Phew! It was a whirlwind trip, as I mentioned, but well worth it. Good family fun, good food and as you will see, good wine!

We had a wonderful closing dinner with the hub's brother. This was the night of the beautiful sunset which the BIL says were somewhat due to the fires in LA.

The two brothers with the niece, Jaime. I love seeing the two of them together. It's too far and in between that we get together.

That night, the kid was feeling so rotten, the hub and I snuck out for some adult time. We went to the wine bar at the hotel. How fun is this? Wine and cheese tasting!

Since I can't drink wine, due to allergies to the sulfites or nitrates or something--my face actually SWELLS!--I went for the delicious ports. Oh, they were delicious. I have tried one of them before, the Sandeman tawny; but the best was the vintage Quinta do Vesuvio port, of course. Yummmy. The Sandeman Founders Reserve Ruby Port MV came in a very close second.

The hub went with reds and enjoyed each one.

And we decided on the local California cheese tray. The Fiscalini Bandaged Cheddar was the hub's fave and mine was the Winchester Gouda. I'm not saying, by any means, the Sonoma Dry Jack was less that perfect either, but I've had this before. It was a nice way to say goodnight.

We flew out the next morning. The poor kid was feeling miserable by this time. The flu had hit him full fledged. Poor guy.

He did snap these though. You can see the Hotel Del with the red roofs and Coronado spelled in the sand! How fun is that!

The island and downtown San Diego can been seen here.

We connected through Salt Lake City. I had never been through Utah before.

Goodbye San Diego! Until next time!!

xo
ro

The Del

The Hotel Del Coronado is one of the loveliest hotels I have ever stayed in. I am always mesmerized by the huge flower arrangement and the grand chandelier in the main lobby.

I am always drawn to it with my camera. Although the new camera doesn't capture the extreme closeups my previous one did, it still does a pretty darn good job. The little Sony makes up for it in other ways in the end. It does do better under low-light conditions.

Other highlights in the main building include beautiful antiques and an old-fashioned candy shop!

The grand staircase.

The lift is still in use, complete with lift operator.

The center courtyard is full of lovely tropical flowers and plants. You can tell here my new camera lens doesn't have quite the macro my older camera had.

The outside of the main building is amazing. It's all wood. The last time we were here, they were painting it. Can you imagine how much paint it takes to keep it looking this fresh?

Both times, we have stayed in the new cottages right on the beach. They are absolutely perfect.

Lunch always includes a tropical punch.

And the sunsets are to die for.

Even the nighttime becomes magical here.

Tuesday, October 06, 2009

Old Town San Diego

Slacker. I'm still trying to catch up with my trip! Ooooof.

After much talk about some good Mexican food, the BIL decided on trying Old Town Mexican Cafe in, well, Old Town.

Since we were still in the hills, the hub got there before us and reserved a spot before the crowds arrived. Well, it still took about 45 minutes to get in. I think it's very touristy. Would I wait again? Nope.

Now, the tortillas are hand made right there and you can watch the senoras making them. They are to die for.

We ordered some guacamole. It needed something. So I added some fresh lime juice and it turned out pretty good. I suppose I got my hopes up on some REAL Mexican food here full of flavor. Hmmmmmm.

I ordered some type of flat iron steak. It was ok. Of course, the important thing was being with family and enjoying each other because we rarely do get together living so far apart.

Across the street was the Whaley House. I don't know the story on it but it is said to be haunted. Next trip, perhaps!

We headed back to the hotel Del because the kid was beginning to feel bad with a cold. We sat by the fire pit and had some nightcaps before heading to bed. This I could definitely get used to!

It's even beautiful here at night. Sigh.

xo
ro


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